I fear this is going to be a long, incoherent ramble, but often that’s when I write… when I have ideas, reflections and realisations...

Firstly, I just wanted to say thank you so much for the heartfelt messages I have received, I was so moved by your kind and thoughtful...

I wasn't sure what to write about. I knew I wanted to share, but I kept on focusing on that niggling little word, should. So, as always,...